It's true oooo, HE who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from God. Eeeeehhh brothers, marry well oooo cause marriage is sweet with the right woman. 

Not every woman is a 'Wife', that's why the Bible says He who finds a wife, not he who finds a woman. There are many women who won't understand or even subject to a lifestyle such as I have mentioned because to them it's slavery but a 'Wife' according to the design of God understands her role and responsibilities in the marital home, does them and doesn't see them as slavery.

Now, are these roles the same across all marriages, definitely not. It all depends on what type of marriage you go into, but especially, what the man's needs are. One man might not need you to cook for him, another might not even need you to hold a 9 to 5, yet another will want you to work with him in his start up company, etc.

The point is, you knowing that, as the wife, you are there to help him achieve purpose. Purpose in life, at home, at work, in ministry etc. Find out what his needs and expectations are, see where you can compromise and then ask yourself if you are up to the task.

I pray God leads us all to find our perfect match.

Shalom 🙏🏾